

You've hit every number that was supposed to feel like enough - and Sunday night still arrives with that quiet question: 'is this it?'
I know that moment.
I spent 20 years in SaaS commercial roles - £160k salary, nice car, detached house. By my 40s, I was high-performing and running on empty. Not burned out. Not failing. Just quietly drifting.
A men's retreat, a lot of honest conversations, and one decision to stop living by rules I never chose later - I built the Ask More Method. Not from theory. From the inside.
My mission is simple: To serve the person I was, so they can redefine their vision for the future and what matters most.
I'm an ICF Accredited Certified Coach with a Dip in Positive Psychology Coaching, DISC facilitator, and bring valuable life and work experience, from 20+ yrs in corporate, and the school of hard knocks.
My Style:
My coaching blends Positive Psychology and Solution-Focused techniques. I collaborate with clients to identify strengths and resilience, overcome limiting beliefs and barriers, and develop strategies for achieving their goals. The power in strength from the decisions I’ve made, inspires me to help others to create positive and lasting change. Always forward focused
Are you:
Performing but unfulfilled.
❌ Ambitious → but no destination.
❌ Stressed → trading time and energy.
❌ More Responsibility →You can’t switch off.
You're successful on paper but carrying a quiet tension, asking “Is this it?”
✅ We’ll map out what’s blocking you and build a simple daily workflow which naturally leads you towards your goals.
Stuck and Misaligned.
❌ Self-doubt → amplified by the ‘inner critic’.
❌ Lack of time → For yourself or your health.
❌ Disconnection → Alcohol and overwork are masking something deeper.
✅ I’ll help you audit what’s draining your energy and clarity, and show you what’s keeping you stuck.
I’ve coached 100’s of hours, and supported 30+ high performing Men (& Women) install a personal strategy and lifestyle code using the Ask More Method.
Always forward focused.
My time and energy is reserved for delivering the best service to my clients. Some of the people I speak to just aren't ready. That's ok. If you don't have the time, or are not willing to invest in yourself, I don't have time or inclination to convince you otherwise. I can give you all of the tools and accountability needed to succeed - but the hard work comes from you.
Please only reach out if you’re ready.
A proven, transformative & personalised programme designed to target your specific goals and vision. Even if you're unsure what that is yet.
→ Know where you want to go
→ Know what you want to achieve
→ Know who you want to become
→ Know why that matters to you
→ Keep the promises you make yourself
Here's whats included:

Organisations bring me in to ensure healthy minds and healthy profit margins:
Please contact me to discuss your needs
I joined Denise Hamilton-Mace on the Low No Drinker - The Podcast to talk about masculinity, midlife, and moderation I speak openly about my experiences and why men who’re looking to up their game across the board, still struggle to open up.
From breaking outdated norms to learning how to “stand in your power”.